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My Aunt's husband, Uncle Kent, died on my 39th birthday a few days
ago. It's a tough loss to absorb. By the time he was diagnosed with
incurable cancer he only had a few weeks to live. He came home to die
and very soon family and friends gathered around him and lent their
strength and love during his final days. The hospice nurse said she
had never seen such a large and tight-knit group turn out and that it
was probably a great comfort to Kent.
His funeral is tomorrow and I'm still 3000+ miles away. Hurricane Ike
was scheduled to hit Florida tomorrow and I didn't feel it would be
appropriate to leave my family and job when it was still possible to
make travel arrangements. Now it's too late and I wish I was there.
Funny thing is, I don't even have a dark suit in my closet. I'm not
likely to get one either. It's not that I'm afraid of death. I don't
welcome it, but I believe that you have to make the most of your life
while you're granted your short stay on this planet. I do feel the
loss of Kent's future contributions to his family and friends, his
propensity to make good things happen for people he might not even
know, and the ripples of positive change that his life and love
created. But mostly, I want to celebrate the good life that Kent led.
I don't want a dark suit at my funeral. It should be colorful, loud,
and full of music and good times remembered.
One can't live in fear of the fact that death may come at any time.
But rather its eventuality should inform each action so that you live
each day to its fullest. No day but today -- as they say in the musical
RENT. So for Uncle Kent, I promise to do better, live each moment with
more purpose, and celebrate each day with my family and friends.
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The WorldChanging Blog is about affecting positive change, but you can't look at the world for five minutes these days and not help but notice that the path the world appears to be on does not lead to the golden city, but rather one of post-crash depression. The question now is how do we deal with it.
Alex Steffan of WorldChanging and Cory Doctorow, author and of BoingBoing Blog, had an interesting discussion about what type of hero would be needed in this world. Instead of coming up with something from a comic book, their idea is one that looks something like the opposite of the inquisition, spreading knowledge instead of squelching it.
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The NY Times looks at the musical RENT and how it reflected the city then and how much the city has changed since. The city may have changed and the musical become riddled with references to the past, but the message remains as strong as ever - No Day But Today. Live every minute as if it could be your last.
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/07/13/nyregion/thecity/13rent.html?_r=1&ref=thecity&oref=slogin
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